I want a companion, a friend, a sweetheart, a lover, a husband and a lifetime partner. I want someone who will appreciate me. I am not perfect but I have a heart of gold and am very loyal, trustworthy, and eager to please. I enjoy most anything but I am not a huge football fan. I can take it or leave it. I love to fish, garden, water and snow ski, sky dive, cook, movies, theater, museums, opera and so forth, very versatile. I am eclectic but find rock and roll to be my favorite music. I love to travel and would enjoy a trip to Europe again. I went to the Louve and was in awe and dream of going back with someone who would appreciate it as much as I did.
My disability is chronic pain. I have lived with it for 14 years now. It doesn't make me grouchy or mean, it doesn't cause me to have huge mood swings, it doesn't cause me to be a drama queen. In fact, I've learned to deal with it through the Grace of God and I cope. Most people have no clue there is anything wrong with me because I have had to learn to be a consummate actor and can act as if I am totally normal. When I have break through pain that medication can't control, I simply go off to the bedroom and deal with it alone. I don't see any point in troubling others with my flare ups. Thank goodness they are far and few between. They use to be constant and terrible but time is making my pain level less and flare ups less. Thank goodness.